Attitudes like yours are the reason women don't report half the fucked up shit that they deal with.
Even then, there's been cases of other girls drugging a drink on the bathroom counter while the owner was in a bathroom stall. Better off just finishing it off before it leaves your sight or abandoning it and getting a new drink after it's left your sight.
The issue is, we can't force people to change their bad behaviour, they need to realize that by themselves. And they need to want to change, so all we can do is shame them and force it to admit it publicly. And other than that, never walk around alone in those events, and always come to someone's aid if they look uncomfortable, and most importantly, speak up!
Shut up. Men in the Marines and Army get raped. This isn't a women can't fend for themselves thing. No one, not even trained killers by the military can keep their guard up 24/7.
yep, and fuck them that good, when they agree with , and is a consensual agreement from both parts, hehe ....
Take your drink to the stall. Thats what i do ALL THE TIME if I have to go pee. Never EEEEEEVER let that drink lose your sight. PERIOD!
You apparently didn't read my entire post.
A lot of times it's a deer in a headlights moment. When someone has it happen it feels surreal like it's a dream and they are in shcok sitting there thinking "did that just happne?" which is why most people don't make a scene as it's happening. By the time the shock wears off enough time has passed it pretty much turns into a he said she said.
^this,
That's not what I'm talking about at all.yep, and fuck them that good, when they agree with , and is a consensual agreement from both parts, hehe ....
If it happened for real you shouldn't need to take legal action as you know it to be true without being confirmed in the court of law, as an accusation is still an accusation even on social media. however I understand what your saying about getting it proven first because we 100% don't want trolls exploiting this and making false accusation for the sake of there amusement or to tarnish someone's career/reputation.
I get it and you're right for the most part. But these women took the time to gather up stories and information before letting the names go which is why this is being said now. You should gather up all the facts before speaking on serious allegations such as this. Absolutely. You should listen to both sides. Absolutely. But sometimes the best thing is bringing it to light before even going to court because the system is so fucking flawed as it is, you need other ways to gather information and social media is a good outlet to do that. Once you share your story, it makes it comfortable for others to come out and be like, "Hey, this actually happened to me too by the same person. Let's talk about it." So I don't fault the ladies for finally speaking about it on social media before going to the police. BTW some actually have and nothing has happened because one of them told ME personally about it. FYI.
Lives have been ruined over accusations and I wish people would stop flocking to the internet to tell about it. As for what I said about both sides.
Yeah I remember what was it? Last year? When there was debates going on about street harassment and people saying women just need to tell the guy no and he'll stop following them. Then a woman in New York told a guy no who was following her and asking her to date him so he pulls out a knife and kills her.
Personally I'd have used this pic.
I understand but whenever I hear the, "legal system is flawed" argument I have to ask. Do you have a better solution that will fair for both parties cause I know I dont and most wont. Evidence is key and sometimes harassment is hard to get evidence forward when 1 is denying and 1 is accusing. People can have their #MeToo movements but remember that its the place to discuss, try and get through their issues, and come out a feeling better than they were before the incidents but its not the place to call out names.
I agree where these factors are important but unfortunately the world we live in a no privacy so no matter if any accusation has substance or not, everyone the accused know will probably know about the situation and have a opinion before they have consulted with them, so its better to think about what you can do and not what has been done.
Its one of the reasons I cant get on any of these movements because its the perfect breeding ground for all sorts of shit to get people's lives ruined. I will consistently be a bystander for the sake of my own sanity and safety.
If you dont know through personal experience then you will never understand that argument. So we will just dead that right now. And yes, evidence is key. Multiple people coming out with their stories is a start. But you need to really ask why they wait so long to finally speak. Because they get shamed, they get threatened, they get scrutinized, and they get further harassed by the other party's people aka fans. I've seen this play out in the Smash Community too where that boy Captain Zach admitting to having a secret relationship with Aly who is a well known well GROWN Smash player while he was 16. And what did people do? Aly's fans gave this kid death threats....even AFTER Aly got caught with evidence.
There are people who go to jail for years of their life because of accusations. Im not even saying it happens often but this is people's lives we are talking about. I couldnt imagine having that kind of weight on my shoulders. Not only that but with social media being the blood sucking worm that it is, those people who do get falsely accused dont return to their normal lives and will forever be scarred. Look at the VA for Broly, Vic.
Yeah I never get involved in anything serious because of how influential it can be on peoples and they usually go off from a emotional mob mentality which is usually fired as a shotgun and not at the point of the movement.
Yea. I understand that it is something that I will never understand unless I have personal experience with it. Its just how when I heard about these females coming out about R Kelly doing things to them when some of them went with him willingly and then later said that wasnt the case or Bill Cosby and how long it took for some of these women to come out and say what happened to them. Its just something I cant process because I have never had that way of thinking.
The idea of the scandal is still enough to get you fired from a job although if something like that were to be implemented then the person could at least go back to living a better life.