Cool it down, it was just comment. Telling someone to stand up for themselves is great, I'm fine with that. What I'm saying is that it shouldn't be on the victims of bullying to stop bullying, it should be on society as a whole. Telling someone "if you don't fight back you'll keep getting bullied" seems to imply that if someone does keep getting bullied it's their fault because they're not doing a good enough job at fighting back.
With all due respect, arguing and discussing this will not be a good thing as US and EU culture around this is very, very different.
I mean, she's only 15 so I get why she peaced out. She already proved she can hang with the best and she got their money. WINNING! Nobody needs that bullshit abuse.
Shit is weird dude... I'm alright I guess... Don't know how I want to feel about knowing there are people in here that like screwing kids that don't even have a valid driver's license.Exactly. Im not even going back n forth w/ muthafuckas today. But how is your day?
Because neither of them were mentally mature enough to fully grasp it, especially if it's a homosexual relationship. There's a lot of hoops and shit you got to get through to make it clean and safe.
Mandatory MMA classes and physical training for females wanting to enter professional gaming so they know they can send dude's teeth into the next county for being a scumbag
Thats why we're not going back n forth with that person. Better to just put him on ignore and move on. But thank you
yeah I know what you mean, its weird because for us in the EU as this kind of relationship is normal, but in the US its seen as pedo.Thats why we're not going back n forth with that person. Better to just put him on ignore and move on. But thank you
ignore me for having a different opinion? you are weak minded.Thats why we're not going back n forth with that person. Better to just put him on ignore and move on. But thank you
do you know them personaly to know how mature they are?
I have had it with ignorant bullshit coming from people thinking they know what's best for women. No, it's common sense. If you're getting hit you don't just stand there, same for bullying and everything in life. You're just assuming an outcome based on nothing.
And the only way to solve this would need a huge cultural shift that wont have any impact until the next generation of kids grow up in like 20 years.
I'm not saying just stand there. By all means, if someone is getting bullied they should stand up for themselves. But it shouldn't just be on them, it should be on society as a whole to try and make a change.
I agree, but changing people's behaviors, especially when they're in groups, is extremely hard. People sort of have to make the change individually and it comes from maturing a lot as well and life experience in general. Tell them to be too nice to women and they'll let them win, and that's just as sexist as bullying them for being women.
Medical science has proven that the rational part of the human brain doesn't fully develop into full functionality until around the age of 25. But pop-off my dude. I've seen a lot of girls and dudes ruin their lives before they even get a diploma or GED because screwing around in high school is great fun.
Sure but teach boys and men to not be total fuckwits by calling them out like this
It's a 2 way street for sure, both parties need to respect each other. What I've learned from having long-life male friends is if you talk back, you'll get their respect. If not they'll look at you like a fragile flower, but either way if someone talks shit about you they'll be the first to step up in front of you. Lack of knowledge or just lack of social inexperience with women does make them dish it out on those they're essentially supposed to protect from other males who still don't grasp this concept, but that's a whole other conversation.
For that to happen people will have to treat their children differently, for example my first few years in school my family made it really embarrassing when they saw me interact with girls or do any girly thing. like the "kai has a girlfriend" (my names kai btw) teasing so I eventually avoided girls. and other lads at school did this aswell to eachother so it the lads and girls don't really mix that much till later in life. some guys will grow up never really interacting with girls at a young age or women when they get older so they just stay in there circle of guys and this mentality just gets worse and creates communities built with the social deficiency to talk to women because the earlies experience they can relate to is the embarrassment and the "ewww a gril".
so what? should people wait till 25 to have sex? get real 16 year olds have sex and relationships. i'm not saying this should be the norm or that these relationships are healthy, but some of them turn out good and even end in happy marriage. is it okay to destroy these relationships? i don't think so. i respect your opinion but you don't need to pretend to have the moral high ground, when a lot of people and even the law disagree with you.
Not trying to say whos right or wrong but this is just black and white different in these 2 countries so there will be no middle ground or any reason to discuss.
The rational part of the brain has stopped developing altogether from what I have seen.
Bruh are u me? cause I was writing about myself lol.
Wait your brain is meant to have those?
Your name is Kai? XD
you are right but calling ally a pedo is just defamation.