yeah it's a matter of steps, it just takes maybe a different amount of time for each case than it does for anyone else, extroverted peeps included. Everyone has their own point where they reach the level of being comfortable amongst strangers, especially when the majority of the scene is friendly and close knit with one another. I just think the matter deserved proper explanation apart from everyone thinking that some guys were just too starstruck or anything to ask for games when there's a more grounded explanation in most cases. That's all