Crimson: I agree with everything you said. Everyone's experience in these games is different and that colors your perspective. MKX was the first fighting game I really dove into on the frame data level when a buddy and I picked it up to play together. Not knowing any better, my first character was Warrior Predator and I got hundreds of matches against Cybernetic Kano getting projectile spammed to death and adapting to that. It was a hell of an entry point to "studying" fighting games. He eventually switched to Quan Chi, which was even more fun of a completely different variety. We picked up IJ2 when it first came out and my first several hundred matches or so were with Dr. Fate vs. release %^%^ing Aquaman dealing with endless Tentacle Spam until they nerfed AM and my buddy moved on to Black Adam (which wasn't a lot of fun either). Now in MK11 my buddy mains SubZero, who I find to be absolutely obnoxious. I've spent like 5 years over 3 games adapting to and surviving the 'bs' and I'm kinda tired of it, to the point that I've mostly stopped playing and when I do play, I refuse to play my friend unless he's going with someone NOT SubZero.
That said, maybe it's an experiential thing, but I've been finding myself putting in more time than I remember doing in MKX/IJ2 figuring out how to beat gimmicky, suboptimal things (consistent double pokes/sweeps, direspected plus frames, etc).