If he posted in the character forum of the character he's having trouble with and said "hey, I use X, and when I fight Y I always have trouble with Z. Any tips?" he might get the help he's looking for. Instead he posts this whole "I don't like zoning in IGUA" and expects to be spoon-fed all the different solutions to ever possible problem. Or he could get a friend to play him and he could try different things to get around the tactic causing him trouble. I realize not everyone has someone to play against, so a focused post describing what he is stuck on would be best.
If people seem like jerks here, its because it is boring reading the same crybaby threads over and over again. I would hope people sign up here to learn and improve their game, even if they never go to a tournament. This site helped me a lot, especially since I have no one local to play against. I still get beat a lot and I don't have the skill to get around some things, but I don't get pissy about it, I realize its my own skill level that's lacking, not that the game is broken or the opponent is being "cheap."
Seriously, all new members should read this:
http://testyourmight.com/threads/all-you-do-is-the-same-move-over-and-over.32698/
Also, spend A LOT of time in this forum:
http://testyourmight.com/forums/fighting-philosophy.194/
Yay, more whining.