You know, I read this whole thread while eating some Popcorn and drinking some Mellow Yellow and I can say that I was very entertained to say the least.
All I can say is ded_ is a highly respected member of the community for multiple reasons just like Lex. This whole first grade style of argument doesn't benefit the community. However, the things that you both do such as combo videos and pure skill on a actual machine do.
Since you don't like each other don't talk or make contact with each other. You're both valuable to the community and you're both highly respected within said community. So why don't you both act like civil people and show each other the respect that you both deserve. Make bridges, not burn them.
-Sugar.