Living Corpse
Champion
My family bought me a groupon for martial arts as a gift.
Family: "We thought you wanted to learn martial arts?"
Me: "Yes I do wanna learn martial arts....when I'm ready. I don't have money for the gas and the truck I drive eats it all, I only have enough money for the fucking bills. I was looking up places and suddenly you buy me a groupon for a place that is even further away then the two places I was looking into and worst you do it with asking me, before I was ready. I don't give a shit that it's an early Christmas gift, this isn't like buying a book for someone where you can hold out on it forever and read when you're ready, this is a groupon for something I'm not even ready for yet that wont wait for me because it expires in a few months. I don't even know if I wanna go to this place, what if I wanted to go to the other places that are closer to save gas? I barely have enough money to pay for gas just to take my niece to school everyday because no one else has time to do it. I'm not even in good enough shape yet, there's a reason why I bought weights before looking into these places."
TLDR: My family basically made a decision for me with out consulting me and pretty much forced me into something before I was ready both psychically, mentally, or financially. In other words the kind of shit that causes couples to break up because one makes a decision by themselves that affects both partners and requires they both talk it over.
Family: "We thought you wanted to learn martial arts?"
Me: "Yes I do wanna learn martial arts....when I'm ready. I don't have money for the gas and the truck I drive eats it all, I only have enough money for the fucking bills. I was looking up places and suddenly you buy me a groupon for a place that is even further away then the two places I was looking into and worst you do it with asking me, before I was ready. I don't give a shit that it's an early Christmas gift, this isn't like buying a book for someone where you can hold out on it forever and read when you're ready, this is a groupon for something I'm not even ready for yet that wont wait for me because it expires in a few months. I don't even know if I wanna go to this place, what if I wanted to go to the other places that are closer to save gas? I barely have enough money to pay for gas just to take my niece to school everyday because no one else has time to do it. I'm not even in good enough shape yet, there's a reason why I bought weights before looking into these places."
TLDR: My family basically made a decision for me with out consulting me and pretty much forced me into something before I was ready both psychically, mentally, or financially. In other words the kind of shit that causes couples to break up because one makes a decision by themselves that affects both partners and requires they both talk it over.