Yojimzo
One of many Bat-Breakers.
Shoot.Hey guys, can I ask you for advice?
Shoot.Hey guys, can I ask you for advice?
sure, but don't expect something intelligent from me.
Oh I know how that feels, I'm the same way, honestly all you can do is try your best to take initiative to talk, don't worry about the pessimistic feelings, just fight through em. Worked for me thus far.Mulder and anybody else who wants can chime in if they wanna. Here goes:
I have a real problem talking to people I don't know. This wasn't something I noticed until I started going to my local community college (not because I'm dumb, but because I'm poor as hell, just for the record) because my high school had all of 100 people in it. Now I've realized that I can't hardly talk to anybody who doesn't talk to me first, which is really sad for me because I'd like to make new friends and meet a girl or two but I just can't get over this kindof anxiety where I just feel like nobody likes me or cares what I'd have to say if I were to say anything. I get that it sounds cliche and whiny, but this is something I've been struggling with for a little while now so I thought I'd ask the nice people of the Random Discussion thread about it, and here I am. What do you guys think?
Yes lol.Lisa Simpson?
I think you might be me, i have the same problem talking to people, i can only speak comfortably with my girlfriend (couldn't at first, let's not talk about that) and very few family members.Mulder and anybody else who wants can chime in if they wanna. Here goes:
I have a real problem talking to people I don't know. This wasn't something I noticed until I started going to my local community college (not because I'm dumb, but because I'm poor as hell, just for the record) because my high school had all of 100 people in it. Now I've realized that I can't hardly talk to anybody who doesn't talk to me first, which is really sad for me because I'd like to make new friends and meet a girl or two but I just can't get over this kindof anxiety where I just feel like nobody likes me or cares what I'd have to say if I were to say anything. I get that it sounds cliche and whiny, but this is something I've been struggling with for a little while now so I thought I'd ask the nice people of the Random Discussion thread about it, and here I am. What do you guys think?
My best advice is to try to find people who like what you like.Mulder and anybody else who wants can chime in if they wanna. Here goes:
I have a real problem talking to people I don't know. This wasn't something I noticed until I started going to my local community college (not because I'm dumb, but because I'm poor as hell, just for the record) because my high school had all of 100 people in it. Now I've realized that I can't hardly talk to anybody who doesn't talk to me first, which is really sad for me because I'd like to make new friends and meet a girl or two but I just can't get over this kindof anxiety where I just feel like nobody likes me or cares what I'd have to say if I were to say anything. I get that it sounds cliche and whiny, but this is something I've been struggling with for a little while now so I thought I'd ask the nice people of the Random Discussion thread about it, and here I am. What do you guys think?
What the hell.......that's really stupid......Oh dear Spinky... oh dear.
Dat copy/paste.
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Oh I know how that feels, I'm the same way, honestly all you can do is try your best to take initiative to talk, don't worry about the pessimistic feelings, just fight through em. Worked for me thus far.
I do think you need to find someone with interests like yours, it will be easier to bond that way.I appreciate this. Sometimes I just need to hear from somebody else that I can't just give up and hide myself in video games all the time. Thank you, Yojimzo.
It's just so hard for me sometimes, I really wanna expand my social circle but it's so difficult for me to break down the walls I have set up.I think you might be me, i have the same problem talking to people, i can only speak comfortably with my girlfriend (couldn't at first, let's not talk about that) and very few family members.
I'd like to, but I'm not quite sure how. I'm not good enough to play on the basketball team and I assume their must be other video game players around here too but I just can't pick 'em out. I'll continue fighting the good fight, though.My best advice is to try to find people who like what you like.
I had the same issue, but then I noticed that chicks thought I was really hot, so I just gained confidence then and talked to them pretty easily. I think it has a lot to do with confidence. The first time I talked without confidence was pretty hard but after that it's a walk in the park because then you realize nothing bad will happen, and the WORST that can happen is she's a stuck up bitch, but honestly most chicks or people in general are nice as long as you present yourself the right way, and this is coming from someone who doesn't really dress and look too "Normal".I appreciate this. Sometimes I just need to hear from somebody else that I can't just give up and hide myself in video games all the time. Thank you, Yojimzo.
I know it's hard bro, i'm just entering college myself so i don't know how it'll go for me.It's just so hard for me sometimes, I really wanna expand my social circle but it's so difficult for me to break down the walls I have set up.
I'd like to, but I'm not quite sure how. I'm not good enough to play on the basketball team and I assume their must be other video game players around here too but I just can't pick 'em out. I'll continue fighting the good fight, though.
Thanks to both of you for the thoughtful responses.
I know it's hard bro, i'm just entering college myself so i don't know how it'll go for me.
I know it's hard bro, i'm just entering college myself so i don't know how it'll go for me.
... Wut.Also can someone break down for me all the newcomers to the Injustice Pals thread? Because I feel like I've been here since the beginning in a way. But I see a lot of names I don't really recognize, one being Yojimzo and the other being juicepouch.
You heard me. Were you there when we had to make the Injustice Pals thread because we were spamming the Random DLC Discussion thread with non DLC Related posts? No you were NOT SIR! No you were not........ Wut.
Anyways, to continue the discussion, I do also agree with the idea of finding people with similar interests, helped me quite a bit.
I had the same issue, but then I noticed that chicks thought I was really hot, so I just gained confidence then and talked to them pretty easily. I think it has a lot to do with confidence. The first time I talked without confidence was pretty hard but after that it's a walk in the park because then you realize nothing bad will happen, and the WORST that can happen is she's a stuck up bitch, but honestly most chicks or people in general are nice as long as you present yourself the right way, and this is coming from someone who doesn't really dress and look too "Normal".
Interesting, about the confidence thing, it doesn't really matter how you look, and I'm being 100% honest, it's how you act. As long as you have confidence a chick can like you in multiple different ways. So just gain that confidence man and there will be no issueI think you might be right. I just don't have that kind of confidence, and I'm pretty sure that I'm not very hot either... lol. I just always feel like if I talk to a girl they'll laugh and turn away.
As for me being a new part of the thread, I'm new to the site in general. I've only been a member for a few weeks or so
I can confirm this, i'm butt face ugly.As long as you have confidence a chick can like you in multiple different ways.
I know I'm just saying I took a little break from this thread due to personal issues at home and I don't remember him being here before I left, so he's new to me. Just wondering how many newcomers there are and their names.Joyimzo's a regular though.
It's so true, not your face. The confidence thing. It's ridiculous how many mediocre looking guys can get a super model looking chick just because of confidence and how they act.I can confirm this, i'm butt face ugly.
I don't really know .I know I'm just saying I took a little break from this thread due to personal issues at home and I don't remember him being here before I left, so he's new to me. Just wondering how many newcomers and who they are came on here when I left?
You're on here everyday how would you not know! This is why we need morbid.....I don't really know .
Interesting, about the confidence thing, it doesn't really matter how you look, and I'm being 100% honest, it's how you act. As long as you have confidence a chick can like you in multiple different ways. So just gain that confidence man and there will be no issue
Eventually you end up saying fuck it, if there's a girl you really like.That's actually really reassuring, thank you
Even still though, I'm just afraid to take that first jump in and say hi. How do I go about building this "confidence" commodity? lol