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Playing video games competitively has given me some of my closest friends.To the person who lost a girlfriend and failed out of school and gained a lot of weight and would binge play for 10 hr sessions or so? What do you say then? Life choice or addiction?
It has given me the impetus to travel and meet new people and have new experiences.
It’s given me new hobbies like rock climbing and table top gaming.
It’s brought me countless hours of entertainment and made me legitimately happy.
I’m not sure how or why you’re insistent that competitive gaming is “the devil” when it can be a massive positive force in people’s lives.
I’m not claiming that gaming addiction isn’t a real thing; or that these people need help. I’m pointing out that video games aren’t the inherent evil that some members of this community are suggesting they are. They’re not like tobacco where there is literally no good that can come from them.This subject doesn't even need to come down to being a healthcare worker or understanding how the brain works.
It should just be about having the humility to understand that your experiences aren't everybody else's experiences, and what works for you in your life doesn't work for everyone else.
Do you have an iron will? Are you A B O V E getting addicted to something? Congrats, have a cookie. Not everyone is. Some people need assistance. Telling someone with a mental illness to "get their shit together" or "make better decisions" most definitely doesn't help, and if you're not helping, it's generally better to be quiet.
Do you know who you tell to make better decisions? That cousin who's 30, unemployed and abuses your aunt's generosity to fuck around all day and do nothing else. That's the person who might benefit from a reality shock.
Being someone who at the same time struggles with a mental illness and is almost graduating to be a healthcare professional, that kind of attitude is what drives people away from seeking help and worsens the problem. Stop.
Sorry if I was rude, but honestly, both being told for 7 years to just make better decisions and "get better" and seeing patients get treated the same way and never coming back to continue their treatment, STOP.
Video games can teach discipline, fine motor skill, hand eye coordination stress management and critical thinking. Competitive gaming can enforce social skills, teach dedication, lead to new friends, cause a sense of community; these are all positive things.
To demonise video games and the competitive gaming scene because a minority become addicted neglects all those who don’t become addicted and manage to have positive experiences with gaming.
I have nothing but empathy and compassion for the individuals suffering from addiction and their families. It is always important to raise awareness about addiction and it’s negative consequences and hope for treatment. If that’s all the OP had done, I would have left this tread completely alone; however he went on to demonise the competitive scene and undermine all those individuals who are grinding matchups to try and play at the top level.
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