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A close friend blocked me all of a sudden, a few days ago and I’m just drunk right now so I cope better with alcohol and I’m hoping to get over it even though it has been days now but it seems the pain may last forever or at least awhile but being drunk helps at least.
 
Shania Twain

Shania Twain

That Don't Impress Me Much
Find new friends that enjoy doing things you do? or maybe you just need to look into other coping mechanisms. IDK. Join a dating app. Take a walk. Try something new? Find like minded companions? Most importantly, be safe. Or if it is that bad just go to AA. The other day I took an Uber/Lyft to the post office cuz my car is having some issues. They probably thought I was living on the edge. lol. Try a new search engine instead of google. Maybe play a different video game. Or maybe you need a pity party right now. just again....BE SAFE!
 
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Shania Twain said:
Find new friends that enjoy doing things you do? or maybe you just need to look into other coping mechanisms. IDK. Join a dating app. Take a walk. Try something new? Find like minded companions? Most importantly, be safe. Or if it is that bad just go to AA. The other day I took an Uber/Lyft to the post office cuz my car is having some issues. They probably thought I was living on the edge. lol. Try a new search engine instead of google. Maybe play a different video game. Or maybe you need a pity party right now. just again....BE SAFE!
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I don’t need no pity party but if I’m going to be honest, the thing I truly need is unrealistic and that is my close friend but the close friend is gone forever so that’s out the window so all I can do is embrace the pain and I actually dropped tears while typing this since me and the friend have good memories together but I guess the ego got the best of the friend so memories are all I have left of the friend.
 
Anansi416

Anansi416

Tarkat Lead Cook
-Sub-Zero- said:
A close friend blocked me all of a sudden, a few days ago and I’m just drunk right now so I cope better with alcohol and I’m hoping to get over it even though it has been days now but it seems the pain may last forever or at least awhile but being drunk helps at least.
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All human pain is fleeting and temporary, nothing lasts forever.

If you don't know why you are blocked that may be hard but if your were blocked for your behavior the best you can do is try to be a better person for yourself and for others you interact with and forgive yourself if needed.

New friends, new relationships can come upon the horizon. You just have to keep an open mind and keep the faith with the people who come into your life. Some people are for a season for a reason.
 
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Anansi416 said:
All human pain is fleeting and temporary, nothing lasts forever.

If you don't know why you are blocked that may be hard but if your were blocked for your behavior the best you can do is try to be a better person for yourself and for others you interact with and forgive yourself if needed.

New friends, new relationships can come upon the horizon. You just have to keep an open mind and keep the faith with the people who come into your life. Some people are for a season for a reason.
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All I did was send the friend a ‘?’ because the friend didn’t answer a question I was asking about a TV show and then I got blocked, that’s what the type of shit we sometimes talked about, about TV shows and movies.
 
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It’s probably going to get to a point where I start to THINK I MIGHT be over it but I bet it will suddenly hit me.
 
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The person apologised eventually but we aren’t close anymore.

All good because I’m over all this shit now and have healed from it.

I’m just gonna keep my distance from the person, really don’t give a shit anymore.
 
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And yes, I accepted the apology but I’m just not interested in keeping in touch with this person anymore.
 
Juggs

Juggs

Lose without excuses
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I stopped talking to my best friend of 15+ years back in 2021. We were really close. For awhile, every time I dreamt, he was in my dreams. None of the dreams were about him though, he was just in them, kinda like a side character.

Anyway, not gonna get into the specifics, but he did a lot of fucked up stuff to a lot of people, and he also fucked over me and my brother (my brother was friends with as well. My bro is really close to my age and we are super close too, so we have a lot of the same friends). He’s also a pathological liar, like he’ll lie about things that are inconsequential. And he’s someone who never takes responsibility for anything. So he’ll never apologize. But if he ever did, I could potentially see a pathway to building back trust and our friendship.

It sucks when stuff like this happens. But sometimes you have to cut toxic people out of your life. I know your situation is a bit different, but still
 
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Juggs said:
I stopped talking to my best friend of 15+ years back in 2021. We were really close. For awhile, every time I dreamt, he was in my dreams. None of the dreams were about him though, he was just in them, kinda like a side character.

Anyway, not gonna get into the specifics, but he did a lot of fucked up stuff to a lot of people, and he also fucked over me and my brother (my brother was friends with as well. My bro is really close to my age and we are super close too, so we have a lot of the same friends). He’s also a pathological liar, like he’ll lie about things that are inconsequential. And he’s someone who never takes responsibility for anything. So he’ll never apologize. But if he ever did, I could potentially see a pathway to building back trust and our friendship.

It sucks when stuff like this happens. But sometimes you have to cut toxic people out of your life. I know your situation is a bit different, but still
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Some people are just nasty. It feels nice to be over all this shit now.
 
Eddy Wang

Eddy Wang

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A woman but I admit, I had a severe crush on her but I’m feeling less attracted to her now which is good.

Talking to a bro of mine is much better tbh.
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invest more time on yourself
one thing you will learn over the years, it's that women spends more money than men, you don't need to please them, focus on building your empire and the rest will come, specially if it's someone who has the same ideals as you are.
 
Felipe_Gewehr

Felipe_Gewehr

Twinktile
I really like how warm and supportive people are being here. Losing friends and being let down are very sensitive topics. I'm very sorry it happened to you, and as others said, it also happened to me and it sucks. The best thing is indeed not to dwell on that and instead focus on other friendships you already have, which put you at easy, and try to cultivate new friendships.
 
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Felipe_Gewehr said:
I really like how warm and supportive people are being here. Losing friends and being let down are very sensitive topics. I'm very sorry it happened to you, and as others said, it also happened to me and it sucks. The best thing is indeed not to dwell on that and instead focus on other friendships you already have, which put you at easy, and try to cultivate new friendships.
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Yeah, some people just suck. Thanks, man.

Hopefully you’re recovered from it on your part.
 
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