LBSH, This is a community where the average age of it's members I think is safe to say fall between 20~25 who are predominantly male. That's a pretty testosterone-driven age group. Add in the fact that this is a competative community. Cover this up with the anonymity of the internet and we have one hell of a potential clusterfuck cake. I don't mean to disregard the ladies in the community, but generally speaking, the ladies are smart enough to avoid most of the drama.
What I'm talking about here is restraint and maturity. If we went to a job acting the way we do here, there wouldn't be too many of us working. It goes with the territory of being a responsible adult; just because you CAN, in no way means you SHOULD. Showing up late to tournaments expecting to get in, playing casuals till 7am then bitching because you slept throgh your match or people say you stink is all on you. It was your decision to stay up that late so tough titties. It's the same thing on the forums. The saying is "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" not "If you don't have anything nice to say, troll the fuck outta them".
As far as the top players leaving goes, you reap what you sow. I totally agree that the top players have had to deal with shit and are probably tired of it. In a lot of cases however, those same top players have drawn the attention towards themselves with their posts and opinions, showing a lack of restraint on their own part. Now before people start thinking I'm picking on the top players only, remember that this door swings both ways. Top players are sick of being challenged by scrubs that don't know what they're talking about, but those same top players have been known to crap on intellingent comments from less-known players. The only real difference here is that the top players think they are in a position to throw a hissy fit and "retire" and the community will fall flat on it's face without them. Sorry about your damned luck guys, but we're still here and still planning on kicking your asses the next time we see you in a tournament
I think it's hilarious that one of the things that we've been talking about here is drama caused by players posting on "troll acoounts" when there is a top player keeping his eye on this very thread under a troll account
I do have to give
Pig Of The Hut props tho. He at least had the balls to show up here, on his main account and still try to help the community in his own way; even after how he's been treated. While I have your attention tho dood, I gotta put ya on blast real quick. You've been a member of TYM for how long and you STILL don't know how to multi-quote
I have also been thinking a lot about the whole "stategy guide" idea for TYM. First off, that's the main reason why the majority of us are here. We like our tech, our metagame discussions because we want to get better at our game for whatever reason; be it for tournaments, or online or just to kick the crap outta our buddies over beers on a Saturday night. But I can understand the need for funs too. What I would like to see is that things are put into their proper places so that the individual can choose what they want to see when. If you want tech, go to the tech boards. If you want sexy gifs, go to that section in the General Discussion boards. If you want online discussions... you get the idea. It all goes back to what I said in the beginning about restraint and maturity. Don't bring a "Yo momma" joke into a tech discussion thread or troll someone who may have a different opinion from you. Take it to the appropriate board or PM if need be.
We can all be mature adults if we want to be, we just have to want to be.
OH! And to all those wanna-be douchebags that want to leave our community in a huff (this goes for everyone! Not just "top players") PLEASE let the door hit you in the ass on the way out