Y'all talk like no women play this game, only cause YOU don't know any woman who play this game. Though it is true, most women gamers play FPS or RPG's, and I'll admit I did that for long time. I'm the biggest COD fangirl on this entire planet and sure I played MK when I was young on the SNES but I never really played it to get good. I honestly never found a point in getting better at fighting games until now. I love competition and everything, but FPS is my niche you know. But that really only depends on what you like.
Which brings me to my next point: there is no such thing as male or female genres, or games, or activities, or anything (but clothes - depending). If you're a guy and you feel forced to like auto and mechanic, automatically you're following society's construct of your gender and not what you personally like. If you like it, you play it, that's it and that's all. Your sex is not going to dictate whether you like something or not that's ridiculous.
It has nothing to do with online community, it has nothing to do with the proportion of males to females playing this game. Because let's face it, the online community on online FPS games are 10x worse than fighting games and women play that more than any other kind of game. Everytime I opened my mouth on chat, I would get literally assaulted with 'OMG A GIRL WOOOOOOOOWWWWWW' or 'if you game you must be fat and ugly'. Just ignore them and game on, let them run their mouths and kick their asses in the process.
TL;DR: Women play this game, try making women friends.
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