Slips, Imagine if you had a party at your house and your friends bring along a few people you've never met. a few hours into the party, one of them goes into the bathroom because his butt gets itchy -He grabs his phone an makes a quick post to whatever forum he is involved with saying "Hey guys I'm at this dudes house that I don't know, my butt itches like crazy, should I use his tooth brush to itch it?" within a few minute, 50 people respond saying stuff like "LOL HELL YEAH DO IT" & "SOUNDS LIKE AN ITCHY SITUATION, TRY TO BRUSH IT AWAY" .. he grabs your tooth brush, shoves it in his sweaty hairy ass crack, and satisfies the itch for 2-3 minutes... Puts it back and leaves.
At the end of the night you go to brush your teeth and notice something is f'ed up with your brush... it smells like ass! you call everyone and finally get a hold of the guy that did this:" yeah, that was me, I care about my feelings, not yours, i don't even know who you are"
Do you see why the way you are living isn't a sustainable way for a human being to live?
the minute 'caring for your feelings' starts to impinge on the life of another human being, you've crossed the line into unsustainable human living. Its the same mentality that enables people to cheat & steal. Its the same mentality that makes mexican cartels dismember their enemies and put the remains in an ice cream truck.
