ZeroSymbolic
W.A.S.P.
1. Yes I do believe it was my work ethic that put me over other people who were smoking pot and crying in the corner while I was at work. Their were a lot of people calling me a "company guy" a "kiss-ass", and all kinds of other stuff, but I just kept my head down and eyes on the prize. The references and relationships I built with the other hard working people and more importantly my bosses are what got me the jobs that came after that. Mental illness- I have insomnia and ADD-Impulsive, but I don't walk around like those are the things that define me.See this is tough because I need to make it clear. I am not trying to take away from your struggles and accomplishments. That would be silly because clearly you worked your ass off and you have every right to be proud of that. Instead my argument is this
1. There are unfortunately tons of people in situations similar to yours. And statistically most of them do not end up having as much success as you. Do you believe that is purely that you worked so much harder than all of them and everyone could be as successful as you if they just tried hard enough? Or is there some level of selection that happens somewhere along the line? Maybe you got one of those jobs over someone else at some point even though you were both qualified but they had to pick one. Maybe they have a mental illness and simply were incapable of working those kinds of hours. Etc etc. Knowing that it doesn't take away from your hard works and your accomplishments, can you see how some arbitrary or random element could have lead to you succeeding over someone else?
2. Even if it is 100 percent merit. You are smarter, work harder, etc than the rest. We have the resources for people to not have to go through that. Why would you look at your shitty situation and not say "I wish other people didn't have to do that"? You fucking kicked ass, beat all the odds, gave everyone the middle finger through sheer force of will. That is incredible. But do we really want that to be something we have to expect of people, while those at the top don't have to do anything of the sort?
2. If I'm smarter, and work harder, and then I do better, isn't that how it's supposed to work? The only thing I wish of other people is that they were more hopeful, motivated, and pleasant to be around. I wish that people treated one another better, and cut each other more slack. I wish they complained less, and weren't as irritated as a lot of people seams to be. I wish people didn't get into drugs, I wish people worked out and ate better-treated themselves better. I wish that people understood how powerful they really can be when they take down the walls that are impeding their progress.
It's a wonder to me that people blame the elite class-politicians, big bosses, and so forth, that is paint them up as these mega-evil people (they aren't), and yet expect to sit and wait for those supposedly evil people to "wake up" and start making it better.
"Every man is responsible for his own destiny."
-Liu Kang