Nothing that makes people who they are is irrelevant and acts of love are not similar to acts of hate... And if the differences between us are ever not noticed that would be sad... To notice something and to embrace the differences that make us who we are is never a bad thing... It is appreciation and understanding not complacency and sameness that we should strive for...
I would be happy to agree, but once you express your thought, you are no longer a master to it. People are free to interpret it and expand upon it however they feel like, you cannot take it back. That's where love can be replaced by hate, and that's where problems begin.
However, I do not promote sameness of any sort, but can you imagine some poster writing something like "Hey, leads in this game are blonde, dark and then there is even red, NRS said down with stereotypes'n'shit". Sure we do appreciate different aesthetics these days and sure we didn't embrace sameness, but nobody in right mind would point this out now. That's how broken barriers look like.
Trust me, it's not pretty to see someone going out of his way to essentially say "See, I accept you even though you are X and Y". It's still an implied message that there somewhere it is wrong to be X and Y. Hell, even if it's an act of love of sort, why am I still being judged for being X and Y and not for what I actually am instead, even though it's positive this time around? It is still ignoring a person for a label - this is the thing we call "discrimination".
The reason I'm saying all that here is because one would think it's easier to erase borders in fiction with fictional characters that are free of some actually existing, primarily social, ramifications of being "X and Y", but nope, apparently it's still not enough to avoid being dragged through mud, which makes entire situation even more poignant.
...but really, I should just rant about it less. After all, I myself wasn't happy that RL dirt gets brought here on TYM. And lo and behold, here's me myself doing exactly that