My thing is that I'm highly aware of that, but being aware has proven to not be enough. I know I can't please everyone (though I have been deemed a "people-pleaser" by some), but I feel like I can at least give them no reason to show animosity by trying to change/withhold some aspect of my character. For instance, if I know Friend A hates "emo" tendencies, then I will resist expressing any emotion. Conversely, if Friend B do, then I'll open up a little more (but not completely, as I've learned that sometimes 'bottling up' is the way to go). But then again, I don't want to be labelled as "Fake" or a "Two-Face" for not being the same to everyone. That's where the problem arises.
I probably am a mixture of both, though I would probably lean more towards the "innocent and doesn't know any better" persona, lol.
I take it you mean dry humor, haha. Some people are like that and I personally don't mind them at all, though I admit I'm a smiler (no, not a Miley Cyrus fan) just cuz I'm much more of a joking around/laughy (lol) person.
I feel like it'd be hypocritical for me to say that's the way it should be without actually following that route myself, lol.
I guess this is just a big "I wonder if..." thread.