I would have joined TYM way sooner. I did it backwards. Tourney first, study and practice and post later lol.
And to be honest, I've had a few drama queen moments I'm not proud of, especially when I was new and adjusting. I'd tell myself to calm the hell down, it's just the Internet and a video game. Try to cultivate a more laid back attitude sooner.
So yea. Just wish I would have been calmer and more prepared when I started playing/posting.