You sound quite mad at the gear system, sir. Perhaps this isn't the thread for you.This is bollocks. There's no options or ui to handle gear and ability on a competitive level and its not the communities fault that nrs through out this garbage with no real thought.
Abilities aren't unilaterally balanced.
Gear isn't balanced or even vaguely suitable for a competitive scene and guys what.. they're not good for casuals either because they're just broken.
People might enjoy out gearing other people, until they get out geared themselves. Same with abilities