Hades
Dojo Trainee
Ok so basically this thread is about bullying in the work place and a situation im currently contemplating. So basically earlier this afternoon I was at work (I work in a hardware store) and another employee i work with came over and yelled at me and told me i need to get back to work and to stop mucking around (he didn't swear or anything just was angry at me).What made it so much worse was it was one of my old school teachers who used to teach with and whom i have a great deal of respect for. Now basically it was flat out fucking embarrassing to be yelled at in front of my old school teachers and my old school teacher left clearly embarrassed also. This also isnt the first time hes spoken to me like this and to be quite honest im sick of him treating me like shit.
Now the reason im in a predicament is because one of the other employees basically had my back and told him to stop treating me like shit and used a bit of colourful language to describe what he just did and this is another employee i have a great deal of respect for.
So theres a few situations im running through my head right now and i wanted some second opinions on whats a good idea and whats not.
Option 1: complain to management and try and get the situation dealt with in that way, but the issue is the guy who had my back could get caught in the firing line too.
Option 2: talk to him one on one. Now this idea im not a big fan of, basically because this isn't the first time he's spoken to me in this way and i don't think much will come of talking to him... (And hes a stubborn motherfucker)
Option 3: contact my old teacher and ask him to lay a complaint against him. Now i ran through this idea in my head and it seems pretty good but then again i need a second opinion on whether or not this is a safe option.
Anyway id appreciate some feedback, maybe suggestions or what options you think will or wont work. Basically anything because im sick of this employee treating me and others like shit but i also dont want to drag anyone else down in the process.
Now the reason im in a predicament is because one of the other employees basically had my back and told him to stop treating me like shit and used a bit of colourful language to describe what he just did and this is another employee i have a great deal of respect for.
So theres a few situations im running through my head right now and i wanted some second opinions on whats a good idea and whats not.
Option 1: complain to management and try and get the situation dealt with in that way, but the issue is the guy who had my back could get caught in the firing line too.
Option 2: talk to him one on one. Now this idea im not a big fan of, basically because this isn't the first time he's spoken to me in this way and i don't think much will come of talking to him... (And hes a stubborn motherfucker)
Option 3: contact my old teacher and ask him to lay a complaint against him. Now i ran through this idea in my head and it seems pretty good but then again i need a second opinion on whether or not this is a safe option.
Anyway id appreciate some feedback, maybe suggestions or what options you think will or wont work. Basically anything because im sick of this employee treating me and others like shit but i also dont want to drag anyone else down in the process.