I don't understand how this is a thing. I play Player Match exclusively and I have no issue here. Don't take matches from people with questionable stats and the chances are high they'll have no problem putting Comp mode on. I've ran into maybe like 4 people who refused to turn it on. Otherwise I've actually added like 20 friends because we ran long, awesome competitive sets.
Really? Only 4 people? I put in into Competitive mode by default and most of them refuse to turn their gear off. I play Player Matches almost exclusively too. Most of the times it's just the ones who don't have full lv20 gearsets who enable Comp mode.
I don't see the fun in beating someone who isn't lv20 yet with a full epic gear set. I really wish competitive mode was the default and they reserved the gear for other multiplayer modes. Or, I dunno, ditch the stats or make default, balanced gearsets focussing on different attributs or whatever. This is just weird.
And make the Epic gear at least look epic. Most epic gear looks the same as a common or rare piece but it has a handgrenade or something attached to it. That you can't use. XD
Anyone can add me for games, btw. I like running longer sets but for now I only play Harley Quinn.