yeah, it's getting annoying...
I'm starting to see what people are saying concerning "why pay for lag, disconnecting etc" I play games on my wii online that play as well at times and don't disconnect as bad as live does....
I'm thinking the main reason M$ charges you is not for "superior online" because there's still and always will be lag, delay with netplay don't care what console or server it is...but rather all their features with hulu, apps, movies etc, etc...