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JBeezYBabY

Mr. Righteous
Thought about this a lot last night because I couldn't sleep with this weighing on my heart and my mind. I've been seeing a lot of people more depressed than ever. I've been seeing stories on my social media of mutual friends ending their lives or wanting to end their life. To keep it all the way live.....I've been there.....when I lost my mom 10 years ago, It devastated me to the point where I was contemplating leaving this world. But I know she wouldn't want me to go out like that. She was all about love and instilled the belief that love is ALWAYS stronger than hate. God bless her soul <3

There were times .....hell times now that I find myself depress because life can kick your ass. Whether its bills, relationships, family, work, etc. I wish I had somebody to talk to when I was going through my depression when my grandfather died last year, but most people who I 'thought' were my friends didn't even check up on me. So I want to extend a hand for those who feel alone. Those who feel they're not in the positive mental space. Those who feel they need they need a shoulder to lean on.

And even though at times we may not see eye to eye on topics, I'll still be here for you if you need just somebody. If you're going through a hard time in your life, if you're depressed, or if you just need somebody to talk to, Uncle JBeezY is here. My inbox is always open if you want to speak privately.

And if you're read this to the end, thank you.

PS: Also PLEASE check up on your loved ones and friends. You may never know what they're going through until you actually reach out.

Much love. And Stay Righteous <3
 

JBeezYBabY

Mr. Righteous
Sorry for your loss friend, that's always hard. Wish I could do more than just send out virtual hugs.

Same goes for me if anyone needs to talk I'm here!
Its easier to cope with as time goes by but its never easy losing a loved one in general. Bless you hunny and I appreciate you <3
 

Vslayer

Juiced Moose On The Loose
Lead Moderator
Its easier to cope with as time goes by but its never easy losing a loved one in general. Bless you hunny and I appreciate you <3
I feel you and I agree, I don't think we can fully grieve that. I lost my grandfather who I was really close with, two years ago and I still can't talk about it without crying.
 

JBeezYBabY

Mr. Righteous
Quality post. Nothing to add, but just respect the words and the message.
Much love to you <3

I feel you and I agree, I don't think we can fully grieve that. I lost my grandfather who I was really close with, two years ago and I still can't talk about it without crying.
What helps me is knowing that they're in a much better place. Your grandfather is probably talking to mine in heaven saying, "Look at our lil shits chatting it up over that internet thang i could never figure out." lol

*big hugs*
 

Vslayer

Juiced Moose On The Loose
Lead Moderator
What helps me is knowing that they're in a much better place. Your grandfather is probably talking to mine in heaven saying, "Look at our lil shits chatting it up over that internet thang i could never figure out." lol

*big hugs*
You're right. Mine's probably showing yours how to make some homemade wine XD
 

DragonofDadashov24

Let’s see whose fire burns hotter
Sorry for you loss man, really.
I’ve been suffering from depression for 2 years now. Not that thing when you think you’re depressed, actual clinical depression. I’m still fighting it. 22 years old, married half a year ago, got a job as an English teacher and my biggest dream is to get rid of the depression. I gained 25 kilograms, attemped suicide 4 times and now I’m trying to lose weigh and go back to fighting.
You can fight depression and you can win, it takes time and effort and I’m not giving up anytime soon.
 

JBeezYBabY

Mr. Righteous
You're right. Mine's probably showing yours how to make some homemade wine XD
OOOO! Your grandfather could do that!? He's already a fucking LEGEND in my book <3

At a time where young children can get influenced by social media, bullying, etc. please pay attention and talk to your kids, stay focused on them and check any social network, messages they're in.
ABSOLUTELY!
 

Vslayer

Juiced Moose On The Loose
Lead Moderator
Sorry for you loss man, really.
I’ve been suffering from depression for 2 years now. Not that thing when you think you’re depressed, actual clinical depression. I’m still fighting it. 22 years old, married half a year ago, got a job as an English teacher and my biggest dream is to get rid of the depression. I gained 25 kilograms, attemped suicide 4 times and now I’m trying to lose weigh and go back to fighting.
You can fight depression and you can win, it takes time and effort and I’m not giving up anytime soon.
Don't give up, I know the uphill battle sucks but once you get up there it's so rewarding. Also, don't be afraid to ask for help, I know when I was fighting depression I always let it get worse because I never asked for help and always waited until my breaking point.
 

DragonofDadashov24

Let’s see whose fire burns hotter
Don't give up, I know the uphill battle sucks but once you get up there it's so rewarding. Also, don't be afraid to ask for help, I know when I was fighting depression I always let it get worse because I never asked for help and always waited until my breaking point.
Thanks for your support pal, appreciate it. Glad that FG community is very friendly when it comes to personal problems
 

xenogorgeous

.... they mostly come at night. Mostly.
all you need is take a booze and see "Conan, the Barbarian" movie (the old one classic with Arnold, not that horrible remake with Momoa) .... when you see all fucking shit crap Conan passed in his life, and kicked ass and keep going until the end, you take inspiration to deal with your real problems in life ! :D

 

Vslayer

Juiced Moose On The Loose
Lead Moderator
OOOO! Your grandfather could do that!? He's already a fucking LEGEND in my book <3
It was really cool how he did it, and that wine was so strong we just called in moonshine ahaha. You would have loved it.

Thanks for your support pal, appreciate it. Glad that FG community is very friendly when it comes to personal problems
Of course, even if we have disagreements we're still human and compassion is part of our nature. We all struggle and life is not always easy, so the least we can do is have each other's backs during those times.
 

JBeezYBabY

Mr. Righteous
Sorry for you loss man, really.
I’ve been suffering from depression for 2 years now. Not that thing when you think you’re depressed, actual clinical depression. I’m still fighting it. 22 years old, married half a year ago, got a job as an English teacher and my biggest dream is to get rid of the depression. I gained 25 kilograms, attemped suicide 4 times and now I’m trying to lose weigh and go back to fighting.
You can fight depression and you can win, it takes time and effort and I’m not giving up anytime soon.
Married at 22 with a kickass job to help the most important people in society....our children. That is beautiful man. Keep fighting. You're young with so much to live for and it sounds like you're already on the right track. You have wonderful people who are willing to help including myself. We got you <3
 

HeavyNorse

#BlackLivesMatter
I'm not one to reach out to strangers on the internet, but I'm lucky to have some friends and family I can rely on. But either way, it's a nice gesture you're offering, and maybe there are people who could make use of it.
 

Saint Op Omen

Savagely beating his super-ego with his id...
this is cool , all of the good people in here doing good.

My son is probably closer in age to a lot of you then I am & for most of my life the prevailing sentiment was "just get over it".

I'm a completely broken lunatic who has had enough happen to me that I'd need a series of movies. (not gonna say what though, cause there are shitty people who just wanna argue & talk shit, but I will in dm's if you really want to know)

Basically I've been though just about everything & had to fight my way through it. Seeing people who don't have to offer to help is neat.