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rev0lver

Come On Die Young
So, I've been thinking about this all day. My Mom's on my side, my Dad's kinda not saying much about it which probably means he's against it but doesn't want to say it haha.

So last night I was driving to the grocery store. It was about 8pm so not too many people were there. When I pulled in a parking space I noticed something sticking out of the driver's side door of the car parked across from me. When I got out, I saw it was a $20 bill, and two more 20's were sitting on the ground next to it. Being the good little christian boy that I am, I went up to the car and memorized its license plate so I could report it to the store before it gets stolen.

When I got in I went up to the customer service counter. No one was behind the counter but there was another man there waiting to get a lottery ticket. He was about 55-60, a little scruffy, and had some pretty old-looking clothes. He made some small talk with me and seemed like a pretty nice guy. Getting tired of waiting, I said to him "you know, there's $60 laying on the ground outside". I led him out and showed him where it was and he took it. He was extremely thankful, telling me he was down to his last $5 and it was like a gift from God.

When I was done shopping I went back to my car, and when I got in I saw the car's owner walk up and get in the car with the money. It was some skanky looking college girl (the car had a WVU sticker on it). She was searching around the car and her purse so she obviously knew something was missing. I thought, that guy probably needs the money more than her, but it still feels like stealing. It was kinda her fault for dropping her money like that (I really don't know how that happens), but am I just justifying something bad to myself?
 

Ilthuain

Lost in a labyrinth of egoism
You operated on the information you had at the time, so it was the right thing to do.

Nobody can know all the permutations of their actions, and if a potential wrong prevents you from doing good, you will never act.
 

Vocket

Day 1 Phenomenal Teth-Adam Player
daaayum u saw tat sweet dough and u let slip to some otha fool no backies bro ur broke know.
O mebbe u led the guy in fron of the camera n then u made the hobo pick teh monies so that u could make it on americas funnies videos so u make money then rich
thx
 

THTB

Arez | Booya | Riu48 - Rest Easy, Friends
Not your fault...you had no idea it was a college girl's money and you were trying to make sure no one stole that car.
 

rev0lver

Come On Die Young
You operated on the information you had at the time, so it was the right thing to do.

Nobody can know all the permutations of their actions, and if a potential wrong prevents you from doing good, you will never act.
I like that. It makes sense. Thanks.
 

Cossner

King of the Jobbers 2015
Administrator
If you're a dwarf, and you take a hobbit in a quest to get a treasure that is guarded by a dragon, you're not responsible for the life of the hobbit.

daaayum u saw tat sweet dough and u let slip to some otha fool no backies bro ur broke know.
O mebbe u led the guy in fron of the camera n then u made the hobo pick teh monies so that u could make it on americas funnies videos so u make money then rich
thx
This is me trying to understand what you wrote:

 

Juggs

Lose without excuses
Lead Moderator
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Homeless bum steals college skanks hard earned stripper money? You did the right thing.
 

coolwhip

Noob
It would have made sense to ask around the store for the owner of the car though, and if he happens to be there, you could tell them $60 were sticking out.

I agree that the homeless man probably needed it more, but I'm not sure if that entirely justifies it.

I know this is not super helpful, but like you, I don't know what to make of the situation.
 

Saint

Noob
You helped him steal the money

Morally, as wrong as it could be, emotionally, perhaps it felt good to you
 

rev0lver

Come On Die Young
It would have made sense to ask around the store for the owner of the car though, and if he happens to be there, you could tell them $60 were sticking out.
Well that was my original intention, I was going to tell customer service the license plate number so they could put it on the intercom and tell her the situation. But I was getting impatient because the CS guy was taking his damned time in the back.
 

SatsuiYesHadou

Yung Kneecaps
daaayum u saw tat sweet dough and u let slip to some otha fool no backies bro ur broke know.
O mebbe u led the guy in fron of the camera n then u made the hobo pick teh monies so that u could make it on americas funnies videos so u make money then rich
thx
Yeeeeeaa cuhhh
 

GrandMasterson

The Netherrealm beckons
I find it odd that you felt compelled to seek the owner of the money out, then suddenly had a change of heart and lead some stranger to it (who was in all likelihood a gambling addict).

I'm not judging you at all. I just nitpick ethical discussions. Also, I'm one of those people who never give money to homeless people, and especially not to someone looking to buy a lottery ticket.
 

rev0lver

Come On Die Young
I find it odd that you felt compelled to seek the owner of the money out, then suddenly had a change of heart and lead some stranger to it (who was in all likelihood a gambling addict).

I'm not judging you at all. I just nitpick ethical discussions. Also, I'm one of those people who never give money to homeless people, and especially not to someone looking to buy a lottery ticket.
Well I don't mean like a scratchcard, I mean like a powerball ticket. So I wouldn't assume anything there.